Aquarius can be one of the hardest signs to figure out when it comes to love. Once you get an Aquarius to open up intimately, you’ll find that they are fiercely loyal, excellent lovers, and have brilliant minds.
Maybe you’re finding yourself in need of some assistance to figure out exactly what you need to be doing to get your Aquarius to open up to you.
Stimulate her mind as much as her body.
The Aquarius you’re in love with is smart. She can speak about politics, religion, her favorite topics and so much more. Don’t be afraid to talk to her, even if it seems like she knows more than you. She will appreciate the time you take to stimulate her mind.
Get exploratory in the bedroom.
It’s no secret that an Aquarius can be an incredible lover. She is inventive and needs constant change so that she doesn’t get bored. You’ll find yourself exploring all kinds of intimate pleasures with her. Communicate with her and listen to her body–you won’t regret it!
Be ready to be alone sometimes.
An Aquarius is one of the most independent signs in the zodiac and spends a lot of time inside her own mind. She loves to discuss her thoughts and opinions, but she will need time to digest these thoughts and discover new opinions. She may come across as aloof and distant, but she won’t see it that way. Give her a day to recharge.
Tradition is the death of new experiences.
Aquarians aren’t traditionalists. She will have her own ideas about love, family, and friendship that may seem weirdly progressive. She is ever-changing and disagrees with old-fashioned formalities. A spirited debate doesn’t scare her away, so talk about your values and find compromises to keep the relationship alive.
Ditch the drama.
Your Aquarius lover will want to solve problems, but only if she sees a rational solution. Emotions often confuse her and she will lean on logic to carry a situation through to the end.
Instead, she focuses on large-scale issues like human rights or educational reform, and she doesn’t focus heavily on superficialities like appearance or material things. If she considers you a real friend, she won’t encourage the malicious whispering of gossip.
Loyalty needs to be your first priority.
You may have noticed how long it took for your Aquarius lover to open up. Take the time to make her comfortable with you. When an Aquarius loves someone, she loves hard. Expect her to defend and protect you until the end.
Her love comes with devotion, integrity, and commitment. If she doesn’t feel like you’re giving her these things in return, don’t expect her to be vulnerable with you.
Aquarians tend to be wildly unpredictable. They love sexual exploration, learning and analyzing perplexing situations, and rebelling against popular opinions. Don’t keep taking her to the same restaurant, even if you know it’s her favorite.
She will appreciate the effort you put into creating new and exciting date ideas. Take her to a museum to feed her intellectual nature. Rally with your humanitarian lover at a protest or march. Travel to a place you two have never been before.
Experience new things together and she will love you for it.